Birthday Surprise for Sa Tham =P

Today, we planned to give Marissa a surprise for her birthday haha. Before this, we were trying so hard not to let her know about our plan. I remembered the most challenging part was when she asked us to go out for badminton. We were like sms-ing each other, thinking of excuses and finally, we made her gave up =P I contacted her mum for help too, luckily I got save her mum's number last time XD

This morning, we (ck, dy, wy, kx, sy, vian n I) gathered at Mid Valley. We tried to test Marissa whether she knew what was going on or not lol. We was thinking that she had not yet wake up, but when she suddenly called back me, I was like........er, how am I going to answer? Summarize of all these, the part for preparation and hiding the plan from her were challenging.

Anyway, after that we've decided to change the venue to her house. After getting approved from her mum, we went into her house and started to set up everything. We've put the cake in the fridge, set up the hi-fi in her room and prepared her favourite song for her (the process no need to describe =P ). Besides, Diing Yienn would play the birthday song using piano once she stepped in the house. After all these, we hid in her room and waited for her to come back.

Once she opened the door, Diing Yienn started to play the song. Inside the room, we could hear her saying "why are you here?!" lol. Then, we clicked on the song and obviously the power of the hi-fi attracted her. After she entered, she felt so happy or I should say a little surprised seeing so many of us there. She kept asking "why are we here" and didn't notice the existance of the hi-fi, sad case =.=

After a few surprise moments, we went out to cut the cake and she told us what she felt. We thought our plan would go very success, but she told us her mum spoilt the plan already =.= She knew that we would come but just didn't expect Shi Yi would come too lol. Nevermind, we already tried our best and we did surprise her a little bit too ^^

After that, we got some catch up with each other and had Mc D as lunch. We kept on asking Kai Xiang and Chun Kit to tell their stories lol. We also mentioned about the JPA scholarship, it was a sad case for Shi Yi, I could see that she tried so hard to hide her dissappointment. Then, we had a story listening session, listening to Chun Kit's story and we played mahjong too. I learnt it during Chinese New Year, yet I forgot how to play already =.=

I went back home with Vian at 4pm while they continued their day. I needed to visit my dad. Nevertheless, I enjoyed the day with them =D

Happy Birthday Noob Sa =P

第八天 :)

第六天

七个小时半的等待。。。
独自归家的夜晚。。。
接而连三的电话。。。
我，告诉自己不许哭。 

今天爸爸去动手术了。一大清早，我陪着妈妈和哥哥到医院去。途中，哥哥漏了东西没拿，又自己转回家。我和妈妈先上去看爸爸。爸爸见我们来了，看起来有些安心。一直以来，我都知道他害怕做手术，毕竟这是一个大手术。

他看见我，好像有好多东西想说，可是都没有说出口。我知道，他想说什么。 早上九点，看着爸爸穿着动手术的衣，睡上病床，被护士开始推进手术室，我心里有种说不出的感觉。我的心，很乱，参杂了担忧，紧张，害怕等等。

哥哥来到医院的时候，楼下的人竟然因为不是探病时间，而一直不让他上来，这是什么道理？！在爸爸身旁的护士说，进行这种大手术，他们会让全部亲人上来，无论多少个都可以。她们还问我楼下的人是什么种族，我说是马来人。她们说她很差，还骂了 babi （如果我没有听错= =）。我才知道原来马来人也会骂这个 = = 

爸爸知道哥哥无法上来，有点无奈。那里的护士也只能不断地为爸爸打气，说他能够很快出来见我们的。爸爸最后也笑笑对护士们说五天后见。目送着爸爸进去，我知道，这一场战他一定能够赢的！之后我们到公园坐下休息及吃东西。到了十二点半（探病时间），我们才到回到那等候病人的房间。在那里的，都是正进行手术的病人们的家人。我们听了几个关于他们的故事。 

有一个男人在星期二进去动手术，出来后不久，流血过多，昨天又动了第二次手术。当天，他的妻子一个人在那里，第一通电话来了，说他丈夫出来了。哪知道不久后，第二通电话再来说他丈夫情况不理想。他也承受不了，又没有人让他诉说，他便自个儿上六楼（心脏病病房）向那里的人哭诉。所以他告诉我们只要第一通电话就够了，千万不要来第二通。 谈着谈着，一个马来女人出来了。他的丈夫中风，进去动手术。结果已经脑死，救不回了。那里在和我们谈天的女人抱着了她，给她安慰。我看见，他们的泪珠已滑到了眼角。那一个场面真的很感伤。。

一群女人守候在外，不断地为在里头动手术的丈夫而担忧。他们做不了什么，但他们互相鼓励及支持对方。我感觉到他们那为了家庭而必须让自己坚强的心酸，也感受到他们身为人妻的心情。 他们还说，一定要找亲人们一起来，不然一个人在那里等待真的会承受不住的。所以，我很庆幸我决定来，没有东西会比我的家人更重要。

今天，我看见妈妈哭了。我知道，其实他也很害怕和担心。他不会马来文，做什么事情都会比较麻烦。我感觉到他的无助，其实他已经尽力去掩饰了。为了这个家，为了我们，他需要假装坚强。这一切，一点都不简单。如果可以，我会要一直陪在他的身边。 我们一直等到四点多，爸爸才完成手术，但还未醒来。我们可以进去看他一下，一次允许两个人进。